This #podcast from Hidden Brain is, for me, an exploration into men and the characters they’re allowed to display. We encourage the existence of certain “male traits” within the men of our culture, and we disallow others. The episode is an exploration of how some characters that are present in young boys—friendship, openness, sensitivity and friend-love—are often destroyed by the time boys become men. There’s a powerful “masculine” cultural tide in which children are raised, a tide that can be difficult to swim against. Parents are “worried” that their boys are “too sensitive,” a trait that flies in the face of “masculinity” in the U.S.
This is not a post about podcasts.
It’s a post about another blog. A blog I’m writing. That, so far, is completely unrelated to podcasts. Although, they may find their way into it.
It’s called Walk the Goats.
My other blog is about mindfulness, personal exploration, the world being a stage and us being characters. But not just being one character, being a bunch of characters.
Sometimes the words we hear coming out of our mouths are words we swore we’d never say as a kid. (“My you’ve grown,” said to young children, is one of those for me.)
We sound like our (mother) (father) (teacher) (fill-in-the-blank) who we swore we’d be different from.
We get upset when we don’t want to.
We drive cars, intent on going to destination A, only to find ourselves pulling into destination D.
None of these things are things we intend to say or do. So if we aren’t planning on saying or doing them, who is doing the saying and doing?
Who are all those characters?
In my blog I explore these characters. And how viewing them as characters helps create some mindfulness space; space between the character who shows up, and the place from where I actually want to respond.
Stop by and check it out.
This #podcast episode is a fascinating look at how the Second Amendment went from being a relatively sleepy amendment to rocking our politics today. I was surprised to learn that a pivotal point in the “gun rights storyline” occurred in the 1960’s when Black Panthers took up arms as an individual right, showing up armed at the California Legislature. The response to that was both surprising and not.
Then, the NRA did a pivot in the 1970’s, changing from an organization largely focused on teaching gun skills, to one focused on lobbying efforts, with individual gun ownership rights a core tenet.
The most recent kicker is the 2008 Supreme Court Heller decision stating ownership is an individual right (versus strictly a “militia” right). The individual ownership right was decided, but it also said the right is not unlimited and gun ownership could be regulated.
More Perfect is a great show highlighting interesting and important Supreme Court cases. Created by Radio Lab’s Jad Abumrad, it’s a unique look at an important governmental body that makes decisions affecting our lives.
- Podcast Link: More Perfect
- Episode Link: The Gun Show
- Host: Jad Abumrad
- Date: 10/11/17
- Duration: 1 hour 10 minutes
More Perfect is “a series about how the Supreme Court got so supreme.”
What a delightful way to bring things we take for granted to life by providing fascinating historical information with details that provide helpful context.
Ever wondered how the English language ended up to be such a dominant language? In the 7/21/17 episode, Brad paints an amazing language story with historical details, colorful phrasing, a wonderful narrative voice, and inspiring music.
A refreshing way to learn “history” without fearing cobwebs of boredom. Brad has taken his love for history–a “travel through time”–and brought that passion to an amazing podcast.
- Host: Brad Harris, PhD.
- Frequency: around 1-2 shows/month.
- Approximate Length: 25-60 minutes.
It’s an under-cover story: become a wealth manager so you can learn about the uber-wealthy world, based not just on your own experience, but by talking to others doing the same work.
Brooke Harrington, author of the book Capital without Borders, offers a compelling peak into a world most of us can’t comprehend. A world where passports and visas aren’t needed when traveling by private jet from one nation to another. Where, for the super-rich, the laws “are nothing; they might as well not exist.” Where people test the commitment and connections of their wealth managers by sending them off in search of smoked salmon and lost jewelry.
Shakespeare, war, PTSD and healing. Brilliant program that completely grabbed me. Host Laicie Heeley talks with Stephan Wolfert, an army Vet, about his program, De-Cruit, which helps veterans heal through Shakespeare.
Wolfert unexpectedly attended a performance of Shakespeare’s Richard III in Montana, where the words broke through to him in a way he’d never experienced. It was so profound he had a catharsis and was sobbing in the theater. His openness about this experience was moving.
“(Pierrepont Noyes) had a motto – nobody rich, nobody poor.”
“They think ownership and selfishness make people unhappy.”
I listen to podcasts to stir things up. To challenge my beliefs and add new-idea-pebbles into my fishbowl. I live in a capitalist-based nation where the very infrastructure celebrates and lionizes the belief that “trade and industry are controlled by private owners for profit, rather than by the state.” The only other apparent options—socialism and communism—are vilified.
When I think of the Oneida brand, I think of forks, knives and spoons. I think of an idyllic town in New York State, with green, rolling hills. I don’t think of communes, free-love, wife swapping, or…”communal capitalism” or “industrial socialism.” Continue reading “Free Love, Free Market [Planet Money]”
Malcolm Gladwell hates golf.
He views golf as a pastime largely engaged in by rich, white men running large companies, played on vast swaths of private land—accessible only to wealthy people—in urban areas that are park-poor. And subsidized by the very people who can’t use the golf courses.
He hates it for socio-economic reasons. In his opinion, we should all hate it.
Gladwell is a runner; one of his runs is around the Brentwood Country Club, “a luxurious private golf and tennis club” in west Los Angeles. He and fellow runners hug a narrow track outside the course, blocked by fencing; he gazes upon the lush green lawns mostly devoid of people. He gets curious; then riled up.
According to Gladwell, golf isn’t a harmless habit impacting only the player. It has consequences: it’s a sport 1) with the potential to lower company profits, that 2) denies cities desperately needed tax dollars.
Gladwell’s podcast drills in on these issues, fleshing each one out, with political snark tossed in along the way. It appears to be about golf; but it’s really about equity and fairness.
I listen to podcasts on my phone, using Apple’s native Podcasts app. It works. And, like so much tech, my eyes wander, and I wonder if there’s something…sexier…with a better user interface…that allows different speeds…more playlists. First world lusts.
If you’re just getting started on podcasts, my recommendation is:
- Find the native app that goes with your phone, whether Apple or Android.
- Download it to your device.
- Find an article that helps you learn how to download podcasts to the app. This Digital Trends article may help. Or go to my Help page for other guidance links.
If you’re a podcast pro and want to explore beyond the baby-pool, check out this May 23, 2017 article from Bello Collective: One Sentence Reviews of the Entire Podcast Listening Landscape by Erik Jones. It gives a high-level overview of podcast players / podcatcher apps and delivery systems.*
(* BTW, can we settle on what we're calling these listening-device apps?)
Can your phone make you better in bed? This isn’t about phone sex. It’s about using a phone to improve your sex life. And…they’re not the same thing.
The hardest thing about sex often isn’t the sex itself. It’s talking about sex. Being OK talking about it. Talking about what you like. Or don’t. Asking your partner if they like what you’re doing. Or not. Telling them you’d like them to stop what they’re doing or do more of what they’re doing. Taking that BIG leap off the cliff and asking if they’d be willing to (fill in the blank)…do something…new…different…outrageous; something you haven’t done before. Because—freak!—that thing you’re asking for? They might just flip out.